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It’s never easy to trust someone. You would think that the more you know someone the easier it should be, but it’s not. That would possibly be because of past experiences. Most people choose not to trust at all. This keeps that person from getting hurt, and feeling betrayed. Wow, Betrayed. Being hurt and betrayed comes in different forms that is why it is not always easy to recognize. It is very hard to be in a relationship, or a friendship with someone who you can not trust.

Trust is a word that is taken for granted. Think of the definition of trust, which means, firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something.

My favorite part of that definition is the word “truth”. The “truth”, the “truth”. Mmmh, strangely as it may seem some people find it very difficult to tell the truth. I don’t know why it is so easy to speak lies to someone’s face when the “truth” is so much easier to be told. All dishonesty does is lead to more lies that is needed to cover over the past lies. It is almost like a full-time job keeping up with all the details of the lies. Not just that, it causes so much hurt and anger when the truth does come out, and the realization of that person’s untrustworthiness becomes a permanent record.

There are ways to gain trust back, but it is very hard. There will always be a second, or a minute when it becomes questionable.

Where there is reliability there is having faith in someone.

Where there is honesty the ability to be loyal is formed.

Where there is truth then trust is gained, and maintained.

 

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